take time. take time to understand the things that has been hurting you. take time to heal from things that broke you. take time to accept things as it is. take time to open yourself for something new. take time to love the things you once hated. take time to fully understand everything, even if it hurts you, even if it made you question your worth, even if it drains you. take your time. you do not have to rush it. you don’t have to force yourself to fully accept it.