i don't get it. some people prefer to be quiet lang talaga, they're not shy; they just don't have anything to talk about with you. nakakainis kaya pag tini-tease ka nila about how quiet you are. I'm a very calm person around other people, and it is normal. bat hindi nila maintindihan na hindi lahat ng tao eh may energy makipag socialize ng bongga? lmaoooo y'all must kno boundaries
it's hard to explain to someone u love that the sadness isn't about them or about your relationship with them. It's about you as a person, and that life upsets you, not them. some ppl are just cold without explanation. it's your part to explain what upsets you, for them to understand. so they don't have to worry, or they don't have to get mad at you for being cold. they should learn to give you time for urself but still holds your hand in silence.